Evenin'!
Byyy the way, here's a bit about me, since I removed the Profile blurb on the side:
I am a bisexual slave, collared by my Boyfriend. We are poly, in that we are usually seeking female slaves to add to our home under me. That makes me a switch, if you didn't notice. ;) I feel this qualifies me to chat now and then about both sides of the whip, since I've played and lived on both. It's taught me quite a bit, both about the dynamics of bdsm relationships as well as about myself and my service and techniques. :)
I personally am into many, many things, but my favorite kinks are intricate rope bondage and suspension, edge play, and pain. Oh, and just a heads up, I'm not always consistent with my capitalization, since I do switch, but I try quite hard to capitalize other people's names appropriately.
If you'd like to send me feedback, ideas for topics to discuss, other suggestions, or criticism, feel free to write me at: MaitresseKitty@gmail.com
If you do write me, please keep in mind a few things:
- I will not respond to requests for playing - this is a blog, not a personal ad
- I try to show respect to others, you should, too. My name is Maitresse Kitty, not maitresse kitty, and I am only a slave to my Sir - it is inappropriate to treat me as unowned, worthless, or available property. Let's be adults. Kinky doesn't mean sleezy. :)
- I welcome both positive and negative criticism, hit me up with feedback! :)
I'm quite friendly, don't be shy!
Okay... onto the content!
It's always best to start with safety, but I'm willing to bet most of the people reading this are already aware of SSC (safe, sane, consensual) and RACK (risk-aware consensual kink), as well as have established their own personal opinion on safe words and policies of play. If not, google is definitely your friend.
Specifically I'd like to talk about stretching today. No, not holes. Stretching your muscles!
A few days ago I had the lovely fortune to charlie horse a muscle in my back mid-fucking. It wasn't even kinky, which is pretty sad, but it brought all motion to a stop for a few minutes and was pretty painful. I can't even imagine how nasty it would have been if I had been restrained at the time!
This could have been avoided if I'd done a few quick stretches first and loosened up. Stretching is not only great for your muscles (and keeping the play going longer), but for you subby types out there it's also a calm, relaxing way to get in the mindset before getting started. If you're clever, it can even be worked into foreplay. I know my Sir thinks naked stretches are incredibly sexy. ;) What stretches to do will depend on what you are going into, but here are some superb tutorials:
Here are the basic stretches I go through when I'm not doing anything specific or fancy:
Back: Stand up straight, and imagine a line pulling up from the bottom of your heels, through your legs, through your spine, through your neck, and out the top of your skull. Imagine it pulling right up to the ceiling. Now cut that string, and slowly curl forward, starting with just your neck, then your shoulders, then your upper back, just a little at a time. If you can hug your knees, do. Focus on making a rounded arch with your back. Now, one muscle group at a time, straighten upwards again until that string is once more taught. Do this a few times, maybe curving to the side, until your back feels stretched out and limber.
Sides: Space your feet about two shoulder-widths apart, raise your right arm to the ceiling, and bend to the left. Imagine that string again, this time pulling from your arm to the opposite side of the room. Keep your hips level and facing forward so all of the stretch is on the side of your body. Repeat on the other side.
Arms: Point your right arm at the ceiling, then bend at the elbow so your forearm is over your head. Place your left hand on your right elbow and gently pull until you can feel a slight stretch going from your outer upper arm to your upper right side. Repeat on the other side. Then, straighten your right arm forward in front of you, and pull to the left. This should stretch in your shoulder. Repeat on opposite side.
Thighs: Balance yourself against a wall and lift one foot behind you, so that your heel would touch your butt if you pull on it. Now...pull on it. You should feel a stretch in the front of your thigh. Repeat on other side.
Hams and Calves: Sit on the floor with your feet together in front of you and your legs straight. Point your toes to the ceiling (flex) and reach towards them, or pull if you can reach them. This will stretch your back, your hamstrings, and your calves. You can also do this standing up by sticking your rear in the air and making an A shape without the middle line. For an extra stretch, try and arch your back while keeping your legs straight.
Butt: Sit on the ground with your legs crossed Indian-style. Lift your right leg out of it, Pull your left knee towards your center, and place your right ankle on top of your left knee. Now straighten your back and lean forward, Keeping your right knee down. You should feel a stretch in your right buttock. Repeat on the other side. Because this one is a little tough to explain without showing it, here's an image of a woman doing the stretch on her back. If she were doing the same thing sitting up, with her right calf parallel to the ground, she'd be doing the stretch I described: http://www.getactivetampa.com/Traditional%20piriformis%20stretch.jpg
That's about it. Different stretches for different activities. Just picture what you'll be doing, what muscles it will be utilizing to keep you in the position, and make sure those areas are nice and loose. *Insert vagina joke here*
Sorry to make this particular blog more about exercise than sex, it just happened to be on my mind. Here's a comic to make it up to ya:
Yes, that really happened to Sir and I. And yes...we're dorks in bed.
And yes...I took a really cruddy pic of the drawing. :p
Kk, more exciting happenings in le next post.
Later kittens!
-Maitresse Kitty
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